Don't Make Him Wait

“I’m not gonna fuck you because I like you.“ That’s the shit he said to me as he gazed admiringly at me. I was somewhat confused but I could tell by the look on his face this was suppose to be something good. I knew he was searching my face for approval so I forced a smile. Inside though, I was livid. I knew he could see it in my eyes so I tried to make my eyes smile like I had seen Tyra do countless times on Top Model. I felt that was the polite thing to do. But this was some bull shit. You’re not a virgin, there are no religious convictions weighing you down, you have sex regularly, so what the fuck is this?! Less special guys have hit it so why deny me?!

We had been kissing, and touching, and rubbing, and I was ready. My Johnson was at full attention and ready for action. The bed was ready, and I had Febreezed the sheets within an inch of their life. The condom was discretely placed and ready under the 3rd pillow on the left side, I had even opened the wrapper slightly to ensure there wouldn‘t be a fumble. The CD was on pause and ready, all I had to do was press play and Sade “No Ordinary Love” would blare from the surround sound speakers. Everything was ready but him.

“I’m not gonna fuck you because I like you.“ …yep that’s what he told me. Now I know this is intended to be a compliment but the intent behind the statement gets totally overshadowed and lost. I had 2 choices when he said this- I could either deal with the agonizing pain of blue balls the rest of the night or I could change what he wanted & test his will power. He thought he wanted me in a relationship and I needed to convince him he just wanted ME. So before he could say anything else I got butt naked and started stroking my rock hard dick while looking seductively at him. He changed his mind and we fucked like rabbits for the next hour or so. We had a series of dates after this until he moved to Texas.

Some men need convincing but most know from jump if they plan to keep you around. Sex upfront will not change that. That is unless the sex is bad, and if that’s the case then its better to find out in the beginning and defer wasted time. The bottom line and ultimate thing to keep in mind is- Its not so much when you have sex, rather than who you’re having sex with.