For you, it's not sex unless it gets anal. But he is new to it. Now what?
Q: "Of course I love oral sex. Of course I love kissing and rolling around and being physical. But it's not sex unless it gets anal for me, and nothing turns me on more than when a man goes down on me for a good long time, rimming me, before he plunges inside of me. How do I introduce my partner to this since he's new to being with men?"—Thomas B., Miami, FL.
A: Stewart from Quebec shares, "Being intimate with a man for the first few times was intimidating. The truth for me was that I wanted to devour a man in every way long before I was with one. And your new partner may well be the same way. What helped me get more comfortable with what my first boyfriend wanted to do were these long sessions of talking about sex and all that we could do before we ever did anything. Not only did I learn all about the things that were possible, it was a huge turn on that got me way more than just comfortable. It made me hungrier than ever. Talk it out—in graphic, sexy detail. Then invite him in to test drive it all."
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