You're tired of being a piece of furniture in his life; there to look at, and there to make him look good. Now what?
Q: We met a year ago. He is without question an older, rugged, and seriously handsome man. We fell in love fast, but after he acquired me, the love seemed to stop, and it was one event after another with me on his arm, there to make him look good. I'm tired of just being a fancy piece of furniture in his life. How do I get him to see the man he fell in love with and come back?—Jeffrey, New York, NY
A: Sadly, some men acquire other men—usually attractive, younger men—as sport to boost their ego and make themselves look more virile without thinking about the impact their behavior has on their partners. First, take a moment, a long moment, and be honest with yourself: Is this man, and this relationship, worth risking possibly years of feeling like a trophy wife? Feeling cheap and like an object? I have always prescribed communication with your partner for all sorts of relationship harships, but the reality is your partner may warm back up to you—only to slip back into using you, your good looks, as a way to make himself look good socially and among his friends.
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