“Why you keep fuckin trying me like that Toy?!” ..He was pissed now...“ I told you I’m not no fuckin bottom. I’m YOUR bottom but I’m not no fuckin bottom!” I had just tried to push my whole dick in him. I really hate when dudes can’t take the whole dick and this “Ouch, hold up, stop” song and dance was getting old. I didn’t respond to his statement. Instead I pulled my dick out, and spit on my hand for some extra lube. With my other hand I grabbed the dvd remote and rewound the porn we were watching exactly to the part he liked. I knew if he saw an actual male ass on the screen long enough I could get all the way in his ass. So there I was, one hand trying to lubricate his ass, the other hand navigating a remote, trying to enter him slowly, trying to concentrate on my nut, trying not increase the momentum of my stroke and piss him off, all while attempting to balance one of his legs on my shoulder as he jacked his dick. He had my ass jugling like some circus side act. SMH
We had been seeing each other for sometime but it was apparent from the beginning we were both compromising. Me the dominant, agrresive str8 Top and him the Top who had only been fucked a rare couple of times and didn't much care for it. Every time we had sex he would give me distinct directions on how I could and could not fuck him. He would only allow me to fuck him in certain positions. He held my dick at the base to monitor how much dick I put in. He even dictated what pace I could stroke. To make matters more distressing, his motto was 'If you don’t cum by the time I cum then then you gone have to come back tomorrow'. Which made me feel like I was in some sort of damn disadvantaged race. This was different for me. I might have been fucking him but I didn’t much feel like the Top.
One late night after I had been out all day we hooked up. I had just gotten in the bed and began to dose off when my phone rang. It was him on the other end “ Come get me Toy.” Tired as hell but always down for a nut I replied “Okay”. 30 minutes later he was on his knees in the middle of my bed and I was standing over him directing his head back and fourth on my dick. I could tell by the ferocity in which he sucked that he wanted me to fill his mouth with cum but I didn’t want to nut that way. I told him “I want some ass.” He gave me a nasty, disappointed look, let out an exasperated sigh and laid down. He only let me get half the dick in as usual and I had to deal with his usual rant about how he wasn’t a bottom he was just “MY” bottom. He never called me again after that. I was cool with it.
I say all that to say this, both parties go into a relationship knowing exactly what they can and can not give as well as what they can and can not take. If you can’t take dick then don’t take dick. If you like fucking ass then stay away from self identified Tops. From sex to morals, no matter how much you like a person your boundaries should remain firm. If not the very relationship you’ve modified yourself to enter may require a continued compromise on your behalf to keep. If you have no solidity going in you’ll constantly find yourself bending for the other person. And I can tell you from experience there’s nothing worse than fucking somebody who’s bending over half heartedly.
We had been seeing each other for sometime but it was apparent from the beginning we were both compromising. Me the dominant, agrresive str8 Top and him the Top who had only been fucked a rare couple of times and didn't much care for it. Every time we had sex he would give me distinct directions on how I could and could not fuck him. He would only allow me to fuck him in certain positions. He held my dick at the base to monitor how much dick I put in. He even dictated what pace I could stroke. To make matters more distressing, his motto was 'If you don’t cum by the time I cum then then you gone have to come back tomorrow'. Which made me feel like I was in some sort of damn disadvantaged race. This was different for me. I might have been fucking him but I didn’t much feel like the Top.
One late night after I had been out all day we hooked up. I had just gotten in the bed and began to dose off when my phone rang. It was him on the other end “ Come get me Toy.” Tired as hell but always down for a nut I replied “Okay”. 30 minutes later he was on his knees in the middle of my bed and I was standing over him directing his head back and fourth on my dick. I could tell by the ferocity in which he sucked that he wanted me to fill his mouth with cum but I didn’t want to nut that way. I told him “I want some ass.” He gave me a nasty, disappointed look, let out an exasperated sigh and laid down. He only let me get half the dick in as usual and I had to deal with his usual rant about how he wasn’t a bottom he was just “MY” bottom. He never called me again after that. I was cool with it.
I say all that to say this, both parties go into a relationship knowing exactly what they can and can not give as well as what they can and can not take. If you can’t take dick then don’t take dick. If you like fucking ass then stay away from self identified Tops. From sex to morals, no matter how much you like a person your boundaries should remain firm. If not the very relationship you’ve modified yourself to enter may require a continued compromise on your behalf to keep. If you have no solidity going in you’ll constantly find yourself bending for the other person. And I can tell you from experience there’s nothing worse than fucking somebody who’s bending over half heartedly.
9 COMMENTS:
You made me think with this one...I just finished a rant about how everyone should challenge their preferences more.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that you could've coaxed him better. Have you thought of using your namesake and relax him with a vibrator?
Nothing loosens me up like a good rim polish and some pulsations where the Sun don't shine!
Check out my related rant:
http://intelsexualism.blogspot.com/2010/01/pomosexuality-omega-label.html
NEGRO... I have told you several damn times, stop thinking all fucking is like that you see on a porn. Its not, thats a lot of stopping and starting and the finished product is what you see. If you are ramming your dick straight into any guy and he doesnt say stop or take your time at the beginning then we have two issues. He has no walls or you have a small ass dick. And since I have laid with you naked I wont comment on which one of those issues is true. And good for ol' boy for taking control of how a man treats his goods. Its his ass he should have the final say and control the moment. I LOVE AN AGRESSIVE IN CONTROL BOTTOM.
Again I haven't had my kitty punched in three years and I don't have enough sex often enough to really know where your coming from on this but I have to agree with Drama.
Even if this dude wasn't just YOUR bottom its his ass he ought to damn well be able to vocalize how, when, where, and so on when it comes to letting a dude fuck him.
But you already know I believe all bottoms ought to be more discerning and demanding.
"Its his ass he should have the final say and control the moment" Now thats some BULLSHIT. A bottom is a bottom because they SUBMIT. A bottom gives it up to the TOP. A bottom is submissive to a TOPS power. "AN AGRESSIVE IN CONTROL BOTTOM" ain't a damm bottom.
@TheWickedOne(Love the Name): Bottom = Submission? Maybe in the world of bondage and domination, but even then there's safe words.
There are, indeed, agressive bottoms and remote-controlled tops...Good sex involves a steady reciprocation of power and pleasure.
Alright for blowing a brothas back out!
@ Wicked: You're gross. I hope someone sits down too quick and breaks your dick.
. . . nasty.
Uhm, yeah I'm agreeing with Drama. The person on bottom is a human being not a cum dumpster. There should be respect for the other individual seeing as sex is supposed to be pleasurable to BOTH parties.
If he was willing to go face down ass up then it wasn't about him being a natural top. It was about him willing to submit himself because he was feelin you.
I would NEVER let someone do that to me, hell no!
Man, you must be used to all the dudes that let you beat it. If a dude has already given the bum up to you once, he'll do it again. You just need to coax him into it. Obviously, there's some mental issues with ol' boy not wanting to be turned out. But if he knows how you get down and he's still messing with you, that is a signal for the future. Of course, if you don't see a future with him, then screw it. Bounce.
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